Finding Your Personal Style in 3 Words

Defining your personal style can feel like an intimidating, almost impossible task. With so many trends, inspirations, and influences coming at you every day, it’s easy to fall into the “I just wear what I like” mindset. But what if there was a simple way to nail down your style? Enter the Three Word Method, popularized by stylist Allison Bornstein. This method is a game-changer—it encourages you to choose three adjectives that describe your style and use them as a guide for building your wardrobe.

I’ll admit, narrowing down my style to just three words sounded overwhelming at first. I’ve gone through so many phases (anyone else remember their neon phase in high school?). But after some reflection—and a lot of Pinterest scrolling—I realized that my style had consistent themes. Once I figured out my words, everything clicked. Shopping became easier, dressing felt less chaotic, and I finally felt like I understood my closet.

My 3 Words for Personal Style

Effortless

This word defines the vibe I always strive for. I love outfits that look put together without feeling overdone—like a perfectly slouchy sweater paired with tailored trousers or a breezy sundress styled with sneakers. Effortless pieces are my foundation because they’re comfortable and versatile while still looking polished.

Playful

While I stick to neutral tones and classic silhouettes, I love adding a touch of fun to my outfits. Whether it’s a pop of color in my accessories, an unexpected print, or quirky details like scalloped hems, playful elements keep my wardrobe from feeling too serious. They also allow me to experiment with trends in a way that still feels true to my style.

Timeless

I’m all about investing in pieces that I know I’ll love years down the line. Think tailored blazers, clean-cut denim, and neutral leather bags. Timeless doesn’t mean boring—it means curating a wardrobe of high-quality staples that act as the canvas for every outfit. These pieces make me feel confident and grounded, no matter the occasion.

Why It Works

Once you’ve defined your three words, you’ll start noticing patterns in what you wear and love. For me, these words act as a filter every time I’m shopping or editing my wardrobe. If something doesn’t fit my style descriptors, it’s an easy “no.” This has helped me avoid impulse buys and focus on curating a wardrobe that feels cohesive and authentic.

What’s great about the Three Word Method is that it’s flexible—you can adapt your words as your style evolves. But most importantly, it’s a tool to help you feel more intentional and confident in how you present yourself every day.

What three words would you use to describe your personal style?